After so many year of experiencing the same behavior you become jaded. Now when I notice someone taking an interest in me, becoming infatuated even, I just wait. I wait for them to Google me and dump my ass. Thinking, dude, seriously, check up on who you are flirting with before falling in love. I'm not going to explain myself or even apologize for my past, or more accurately how media and obsessive stalkers has portrayed my past and my character. If you can't see through that scam then you are nothing for me anyway. I demand smarter partners.