My South African friends who are now in Sweden.
Let's be honest here. Guys are equally dumb here as in Sweden. No matter where you go on the planet it's the same story. No action anywhere. They go out with their friends instead of taking me out, they don't call, they don't send cute messages or flirts and they don't knock on my door late at night. They don't even react when I skimp around in my underwear by the window. My Facebook got invaded by several thousands of Arabs the past weeks,with no explanation. But at least they flirt and send dicpics which could be seen as an equivalent to having a love life, when reality fails. At least the Arabs show some initiative.