Friday, April 21

About dicpics.

I read an article today about dicpics in the swedish newspaper Aftonbladet. It's about how men send dicpics to children and also show dicpis on their phone to both children and random women they meet out in public. This is of course despicable and is not just a sign of pedophilia but also a way to degrade abuse women, to show their 'power'.

But, aside from this deviant sickly behaviour, I would like to talk about the self degrading aspect of the men who feel compelled to send dicpics. A woman can also ask for a dicpic, and if the man doesn't comply, she will perhaps think there's something wrong with his genital organs and also feel insulted for the lack of obedience, so most men do comply here.

I used to have a nice collection of dicpics and often encourged the people who flirted with me, or me with them, to send dicpics, to add to the collection. I felt ashamed for this, because it is degrading towards the man to be asked to take a dicpic. That was me abusing my power as a woman.

I have deleted this collection now. Soory guys, you did it for nothing. I was considering making an art exhibition out of it and even mentioned it both here on the blog and to my friends, but some other artist either stole the idea or came up with something similar before I got to it. Some of the guys were happy to oblige though and got flattered, just as I got if someone sent me a dicpic before I asked for it.

This is not me asking for more, just adding to the debate that not all dicpics are bad. There are good dicpics out there. I've seen it. I know they exist. I also find something endearing in the notion that men like to take dicpics, that they feel that kind of love for themselves. It's a healthy behaviour unless it goes to children, or adults who are unprepared or obviously not interested.  It can be hard to know if a woman, or man, is interested though, initally talking to them usually gives a good indication.

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